Judgeing

I am 18years old and a senior in high school! I am also a teenage mom. People always look at me like a have some kind o mistakewith my life or something, but i dont think of it that way at all.
So my thought is...if it was them in my shoes, if they were the ones that were moms in high school, would they still think the same thing. Why is it that it is so easy to look at something fom the outside looking in and judge or form an oppinion but when it is you in the situation you feel completely different! i used to tell people i was never gonna have a kid in high school. I was deterined t graduate and go to college and get married first...but that didnt happen and looking back at the way i felt aou tit then and the way i feel about it now..i feel some what wrong! I am not perfect by any means..i hav struggles and problems in my life...but i am making it! I workhard and stay focused on giving my daughter thebest life i can and thats all i can do now! I wanted my little girl..her daddy and i are very happy togehter and very proud of our lives!

I guess the point is, the next time you look at someone and say something like "You're making a huge mistake!" or "how could you do that"..put yourself in their posistion and think about how you would truly handle it, becasue in reality, nobody knows exactly how they would handle anything until they are acctually in the situation!
thats all for today! let me know hat you think!